Self-Guided Afterlife Communication Accounts by Experiencers

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Self-Guided Afterlife Communication

The Self-guided Afterlife Connections Procedure was developed to allow people to have their own afterlife connections without the aid of a facilitator, medium, or psychotherapist. We know that people can be guided into having their own afterlife connection by a psychotherapist using the Guided Afterlife Connections procedure named Repair & Reattachment Grief Therapy and the Induced After Death Communication (IADC) procedure, both developed by state-licensed psychotherapists. In both procedures, the psychotherapist helps the experiencer enter a special state of mind in which they are open to the afterlife connection. It uses a psychotherapy method called bilateral stimulation.

Craig Hogan, co-founder of Seek Reality Online, co-authored books with the developers of both psychotherapy methods that result in afterlife communication. Craig is a certified hypnotist. He realized that a hypnotic trance with guidance into a state of mind that is open and loving should enable the experiencer to have an afterlife connection. However, some training in how to allow natural unfoldment without interrupting, constraining, or manipulating the unfolding connection is necessary. 

Craig developed the Self-Guided Afterlife Connections procedure to teach people how to use self-hypnosis to guide themselves into an afterlife communication. The procedure is free online at afterlifeinstitute.org/self-guided/

It is 86% successful in helping people have their own afterlife communications. Example accounts of real afterlife communications written by people who have gone through the training and have had afterlife communications follow.

You can support this effort to give people the truth about the reality of the afterlife with your $6 contribution.

~ Participant Journal Account ~

Prior to this exercise, thoughts of my husband mostly brought me sadness. I did this exercise twice. The first time was a trial run, and I ended the exercise at the count of five. The second time, I found it to be so wonderful that I continued the exercise for an extra fifteen minutes, enjoying the soothing guitar music. This was truly the first time that I found my sacred, quiet, love filled place. I had been looking for this during prior meditations, but it all came together for me just now. I found the room in my parents’ house where my husband, his mother and my parents and sons would gather for holidays, to be the warm, loved-filled room where my loved ones who had passed were gathered. I hugged each one and smiled a lot. Then I opened the screen door and sad on the concrete steps with my husband, holding his hand and putting it up to my face. He did not say anything, and no one else did. I did all the talking, but I felt a tremendous love and warmth.

This was extremely healing, simply because thoughts of my husband now can make me smile, and I can go there on my own now. It is truly bizarre that I could not do this before without breaking down. Now I can spend time with him, his mother and my father (who passed two months before my husband), while feeling love instead of the sadness I feel at their physical loss.

I believe that my feelings of love represent clairsentience.
I truly appreciate this meditation and find it of tremendous value.

~ Participant Journal Account ~

When I went through into the white light, it was blank for a while as I decided what image or setting I was going to create. I thought about the ‘loving’ place I had just come from and invite my Grandma for a quiet ‘beer’, but I didn’t need to worry as the Garden scene from the previous session unfolded in front of me and there was my Gran, looking in her late 30’s looking radiant.
The garden was mainly an impression of one, but was very vibrant with lots of colours and Gran was picking big bunches of flowers and then she placed them gently on the ground and invited me to sit on the grass with her.

I got a deep sense of the spaciousness of ‘over there’, the vastness, the feeling that it’s more real that here. I could see why people who cross over, just want to get on with things as that is the more ‘real’ aspect to their life.

I asked Gran if she had reincarnated yet and how it worked. I got the impression of a yellow daisy. Within that image I unpacked the information which translated to…”each petal is a life experience yet it’s still part of the whole flower. That is how I can communicate with her, while she has incarnated again.. “

She also ‘showed’ me how she sends energy to her two daughters who are still alive who very much need some good energy. She almost waves sparkles of energy across their consciousness while they’re asleep. This is also to help them remember faster when they do eventually cross over.

In the background I could hear my partner getting up and moving around, so I thought i’d better bring the session to a close, yet when I got up and came out of the room I was in, my partner hadn’t got up at all.

~ Participant Journal Account ~

I was ahead of the process, as soon as I arrived at the very beautiful garden scene my Dad and Fallon [her dog that had passed] were already there. Well before the door. Things just started playing out and I was trying to listen to and follow the instructions on the audio and at the same time participate with what was playing out in front of me. There was a flash of brilliant light that shot across. Very interesting, I am not sure what that was. My Dad looked young and handsome and bursting with excitement about seeing me, as was Fallon. It seemed that they wanted to just celebrate our being together while I wanted to apologize for not being the best daughter and caretaker, apologizing because I felt they deserved more and better from me while they were here. I guess I expected a different response from them. I expected them to reminisce with me my shortcomings and accept my heartfelt apologies but they were like “forget that, be here in this grand moment, right now and be joyful with us”.

Invaluable…. another amazing experience that I had not expected.
What made the whole thing real for me is that it was not what I expected. I would have, and tried to, script the entire thing differently. I wanted to use the opportunity to apologize and for them to recognize my sorrow and accept my apology, but they would have none of that! They were all about the BOUNDLESS JOY!

~ Participant Journal Account ~

I experienced a very clear connection with my loved one. He’s only been gone a little over five months, but his presence was very strong. Since Frank died in April, I’ve felt his presence at certain times but nothing as pronounced as tonight. We were able to have a conversation, and I was able to tell him how much I miss him and how difficult it has been to live without him. I was surprised when he told me he is also missing me in the same way and was sorry he had to leave. He reminded me of the only prayer he wanted said around his bed while he was dying: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can and wisdom to know the difference.” He told me his death was something neither one of us could change, no matter how hard we tried. He told me that it’s important to move forward and not look back. My experience brought forth tears, but my pain did not seem to weaken my connection. Overall the experience was extremely helpful in decreasing my feelings of grief. I feel very blessed to have had that precious time with Frank.

~ Participant Journal Account ~

I saw my father, my brother and my son as a group together. I then asked if I can first just talk Andre. George, my brother replied that they understand. I started having a conversation with Andre regarding very painful circumstances surrounding his death. Especially the last 4 months. I asked him if he would still have been here with me, if I used another approach. If I didn’t fight for his life, but just been loving and supportive and not anxious and desperate and in the process just added to his desolation. He replied that if that did not happen, something else would have. That we had an arrangement to play these roles in each other’s’ lives. That he is learning and exploring with me. He reminded me that he chose me and again he said: “Always remember, I chose YOU!” He said that my brother George needs to have time with me. He came over and I started crying. I was so angry with him before he died. I gave him an ultimatum: Stop using drugs or you are out of my life. I revisited those words again and again the last 6 months. I missed the George who was my brother. I asked him the same question: Would things have been different if I used another approach? He commented that he would have manipulated it anyway and it would have been no use. I just hugged me and said that he, my father and my son are all three exploring life’s possibilities with me now.

~ Participant Journal Account~

I like this stage the best. I relaxed while listening to the guided relaxation and went to my place of love. I can go there easily, it is a very familiar place to me now. Sometimes there are more people than others. This time when I went my son was a little boy and he was playing with his Saint Bernard rolling around and laughing, (we didn’t have dogs in our house but he has dogs he cares for now). He ran up and jumped into my arms and nuzzled his head in my neck and just held on tight. I could feel the love and familiarity. he reached out and my mother came to us. I told her how much I wished she had been with me when I was a mom and could have been with my kids and been there grandmother. How much I would have like to have her to learn from. She said she was always around and I did a wonderful job as a mother, she guided me even though I did not know it. Then Jimmy was grown up and my boyfriend came over and hugged me and wanted me to just feel the love and to always know they are with me and to feel the love they are always surrounding me with. Jimmy went back and forth between a child and a grown up. He said to remember how happy he is now and at peace, learning and feeling the love he never could completely hold onto here except when he was with me and as an adult he couldn’t always be with me, he had to learn on his own. When it got too painful and he couldn’t go on anymore he was allowed to come back ‘home’. He wanted me to come visit him whenever I wanted now that I knew how to reach him. To try to feel the love and peace that I am always surrounded with.

~ Participant Journal Account ~

I was sitting on a tree stump, my grandma came dressed like I remember her before she got sick. And she was grinning from ear to ear. There was thought exchanges of love and acknowledgement and then I asked the question “why did you have to spend the last 2 years of your life in bed with diapers and all that suffering?”. She answered, “It’s just part of life and it’s okay. It’s something I had to go through and some lessons your mother had to go through. It’s just all part of the journey and you don’t have to understand. I know what you were feeling Lenny, sadness and guilt because you didn’t visit me because you couldn’t stand to watch. I know what you feel but I want you to know, it’s all okay. Don’t feel sadness. I know you loved, love me. Maybe this was a lesson for you, for me, for her, for anyone….. We’re all on our own path. But I love you and that’s what I know.”

With that I just felt an overwhelming sense of love, acceptance and contentment from her. And I said “you can come visit me anytime Grandma, I’m here for you.”

Conclusion

The accounts provided offer poignant glimpses into the profound healing and connections experienced through the Self-Guided Afterlife Connections Procedure. Participants describe transformative encounters with departed loved ones, marked by expressions of love, forgiveness, understanding, and acceptance. These encounters not only alleviate grief but also foster deep spiritual growth and insight, affirming the continuity of existence beyond physical death. The procedure appears to empower individuals to access and embrace their own afterlife connections, leading to profound emotional healing and a renewed sense of connection with departed loved ones.

FAQ’s

How can I communicate with my dead loved ones?

You can communicate with your departed loved ones through various methods such as the Self-Guided Afterlife Connections Procedure. This procedure utilizes self-hypnosis techniques to guide individuals into a state conducive to afterlife communication.

How can I have afterlife communication?

Afterlife communication can be facilitated through practices like the Self-Guided Afterlife Connections Procedure, which involves using self-hypnosis to access a state of openness and receptivity to communication from departed loved ones.

Can we talk to the dead?

Yes, it is believed that communication with the dead is possible through certain techniques and practices like the Self-Guided Afterlife Connections Procedure. These methods aim to facilitate a connection between the living and the deceased, fostering meaningful dialogue and interaction.

Is there any way to talk to the dead?

Yes, there are methods available for communicating with the deceased, such as the Self-Guided Afterlife Connections Procedure. This approach provides individuals with the tools and guidance needed to establish a connection and engage in communication with their departed loved ones.

Self-Guided Afterlife Communication

The Self-guided Afterlife Connections Procedure was developed to allow people to have their own afterlife connections without the aid of a facilitator, medium, or psychotherapist. We know that people can be guided into having their own afterlife connection by a psychotherapist using the Guided Afterlife Connections procedure named Repair & Reattachment Grief Therapy and the Induced After Death Communication (IADC) procedure, both developed by state-licensed psychotherapists. In both procedures, the psychotherapist helps the experiencer enter a special state of mind in which they are open to the afterlife connection. It uses a psychotherapy method called bilateral stimulation.

Craig Hogan, co-founder of Seek Reality Online, co-authored books with the developers of both psychotherapy methods that result in afterlife communication. Craig is a certified hypnotist. He realized that a hypnotic trance with guidance into a state of mind that is open and loving should enable the experiencer to have an afterlife connection. However, some training in how to allow natural unfoldment without interrupting, constraining, or manipulating the unfolding connection is necessary. 

Craig developed the Self-Guided Afterlife Connections procedure to teach people how to use self-hypnosis to guide themselves into an afterlife communication. The procedure is free online at afterlifeinstitute.org/self-guided/

It is 86% successful in helping people have their own afterlife communications. Example accounts of real afterlife communications written by people who have gone through the training and have had afterlife communications follow.

You can support this effort to give people the truth about the reality of the afterlife with your $6 contribution.

~ Participant Journal Account ~

Prior to this exercise, thoughts of my husband mostly brought me sadness. I did this exercise twice. The first time was a trial run, and I ended the exercise at the count of five. The second time, I found it to be so wonderful that I continued the exercise for an extra fifteen minutes, enjoying the soothing guitar music. This was truly the first time that I found my sacred, quiet, love filled place. I had been looking for this during prior meditations, but it all came together for me just now. I found the room in my parents’ house where my husband, his mother and my parents and sons would gather for holidays, to be the warm, loved-filled room where my loved ones who had passed were gathered. I hugged each one and smiled a lot. Then I opened the screen door and sad on the concrete steps with my husband, holding his hand and putting it up to my face. He did not say anything, and no one else did. I did all the talking, but I felt a tremendous love and warmth.

This was extremely healing, simply because thoughts of my husband now can make me smile, and I can go there on my own now. It is truly bizarre that I could not do this before without breaking down. Now I can spend time with him, his mother and my father (who passed two months before my husband), while feeling love instead of the sadness I feel at their physical loss.

I believe that my feelings of love represent clairsentience.
I truly appreciate this meditation and find it of tremendous value.

~ Participant Journal Account ~

When I went through into the white light, it was blank for a while as I decided what image or setting I was going to create. I thought about the ‘loving’ place I had just come from and invite my Grandma for a quiet ‘beer’, but I didn’t need to worry as the Garden scene from the previous session unfolded in front of me and there was my Gran, looking in her late 30’s looking radiant.
The garden was mainly an impression of one, but was very vibrant with lots of colours and Gran was picking big bunches of flowers and then she placed them gently on the ground and invited me to sit on the grass with her.

I got a deep sense of the spaciousness of ‘over there’, the vastness, the feeling that it’s more real that here. I could see why people who cross over, just want to get on with things as that is the more ‘real’ aspect to their life.

I asked Gran if she had reincarnated yet and how it worked. I got the impression of a yellow daisy. Within that image I unpacked the information which translated to…”each petal is a life experience yet it’s still part of the whole flower. That is how I can communicate with her, while she has incarnated again.. “

She also ‘showed’ me how she sends energy to her two daughters who are still alive who very much need some good energy. She almost waves sparkles of energy across their consciousness while they’re asleep. This is also to help them remember faster when they do eventually cross over.

In the background I could hear my partner getting up and moving around, so I thought i’d better bring the session to a close, yet when I got up and came out of the room I was in, my partner hadn’t got up at all.

~ Participant Journal Account ~

I was ahead of the process, as soon as I arrived at the very beautiful garden scene my Dad and Fallon [her dog that had passed] were already there. Well before the door. Things just started playing out and I was trying to listen to and follow the instructions on the audio and at the same time participate with what was playing out in front of me. There was a flash of brilliant light that shot across. Very interesting, I am not sure what that was. My Dad looked young and handsome and bursting with excitement about seeing me, as was Fallon. It seemed that they wanted to just celebrate our being together while I wanted to apologize for not being the best daughter and caretaker, apologizing because I felt they deserved more and better from me while they were here. I guess I expected a different response from them. I expected them to reminisce with me my shortcomings and accept my heartfelt apologies but they were like “forget that, be here in this grand moment, right now and be joyful with us”.

Invaluable…. another amazing experience that I had not expected.
What made the whole thing real for me is that it was not what I expected. I would have, and tried to, script the entire thing differently. I wanted to use the opportunity to apologize and for them to recognize my sorrow and accept my apology, but they would have none of that! They were all about the BOUNDLESS JOY!

~ Participant Journal Account ~

I experienced a very clear connection with my loved one. He’s only been gone a little over five months, but his presence was very strong. Since Frank died in April, I’ve felt his presence at certain times but nothing as pronounced as tonight. We were able to have a conversation, and I was able to tell him how much I miss him and how difficult it has been to live without him. I was surprised when he told me he is also missing me in the same way and was sorry he had to leave. He reminded me of the only prayer he wanted said around his bed while he was dying: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can and wisdom to know the difference.” He told me his death was something neither one of us could change, no matter how hard we tried. He told me that it’s important to move forward and not look back. My experience brought forth tears, but my pain did not seem to weaken my connection. Overall the experience was extremely helpful in decreasing my feelings of grief. I feel very blessed to have had that precious time with Frank.

~ Participant Journal Account ~

I saw my father, my brother and my son as a group together. I then asked if I can first just talk Andre. George, my brother replied that they understand. I started having a conversation with Andre regarding very painful circumstances surrounding his death. Especially the last 4 months. I asked him if he would still have been here with me, if I used another approach. If I didn’t fight for his life, but just been loving and supportive and not anxious and desperate and in the process just added to his desolation. He replied that if that did not happen, something else would have. That we had an arrangement to play these roles in each other’s’ lives. That he is learning and exploring with me. He reminded me that he chose me and again he said: “Always remember, I chose YOU!” He said that my brother George needs to have time with me. He came over and I started crying. I was so angry with him before he died. I gave him an ultimatum: Stop using drugs or you are out of my life. I revisited those words again and again the last 6 months. I missed the George who was my brother. I asked him the same question: Would things have been different if I used another approach? He commented that he would have manipulated it anyway and it would have been no use. I just hugged me and said that he, my father and my son are all three exploring life’s possibilities with me now.

~ Participant Journal Account~

I like this stage the best. I relaxed while listening to the guided relaxation and went to my place of love. I can go there easily, it is a very familiar place to me now. Sometimes there are more people than others. This time when I went my son was a little boy and he was playing with his Saint Bernard rolling around and laughing, (we didn’t have dogs in our house but he has dogs he cares for now). He ran up and jumped into my arms and nuzzled his head in my neck and just held on tight. I could feel the love and familiarity. he reached out and my mother came to us. I told her how much I wished she had been with me when I was a mom and could have been with my kids and been there grandmother. How much I would have like to have her to learn from. She said she was always around and I did a wonderful job as a mother, she guided me even though I did not know it. Then Jimmy was grown up and my boyfriend came over and hugged me and wanted me to just feel the love and to always know they are with me and to feel the love they are always surrounding me with. Jimmy went back and forth between a child and a grown up. He said to remember how happy he is now and at peace, learning and feeling the love he never could completely hold onto here except when he was with me and as an adult he couldn’t always be with me, he had to learn on his own. When it got too painful and he couldn’t go on anymore he was allowed to come back ‘home’. He wanted me to come visit him whenever I wanted now that I knew how to reach him. To try to feel the love and peace that I am always surrounded with.

~ Participant Journal Account ~

I was sitting on a tree stump, my grandma came dressed like I remember her before she got sick. And she was grinning from ear to ear. There was thought exchanges of love and acknowledgement and then I asked the question “why did you have to spend the last 2 years of your life in bed with diapers and all that suffering?”. She answered, “It’s just part of life and it’s okay. It’s something I had to go through and some lessons your mother had to go through. It’s just all part of the journey and you don’t have to understand. I know what you were feeling Lenny, sadness and guilt because you didn’t visit me because you couldn’t stand to watch. I know what you feel but I want you to know, it’s all okay. Don’t feel sadness. I know you loved, love me. Maybe this was a lesson for you, for me, for her, for anyone….. We’re all on our own path. But I love you and that’s what I know.”

With that I just felt an overwhelming sense of love, acceptance and contentment from her. And I said “you can come visit me anytime Grandma, I’m here for you.”

Conclusion

The accounts provided offer poignant glimpses into the profound healing and connections experienced through the Self-Guided Afterlife Connections Procedure. Participants describe transformative encounters with departed loved ones, marked by expressions of love, forgiveness, understanding, and acceptance. These encounters not only alleviate grief but also foster deep spiritual growth and insight, affirming the continuity of existence beyond physical death. The procedure appears to empower individuals to access and embrace their own afterlife connections, leading to profound emotional healing and a renewed sense of connection with departed loved ones.

FAQ’s

How can I communicate with my dead loved ones?

You can communicate with your departed loved ones through various methods such as the Self-Guided Afterlife Connections Procedure. This procedure utilizes self-hypnosis techniques to guide individuals into a state conducive to afterlife communication.

How can I have afterlife communication?

Afterlife communication can be facilitated through practices like the Self-Guided Afterlife Connections Procedure, which involves using self-hypnosis to access a state of openness and receptivity to communication from departed loved ones.

Can we talk to the dead?

Yes, it is believed that communication with the dead is possible through certain techniques and practices like the Self-Guided Afterlife Connections Procedure. These methods aim to facilitate a connection between the living and the deceased, fostering meaningful dialogue and interaction.

Is there any way to talk to the dead?

Yes, there are methods available for communicating with the deceased, such as the Self-Guided Afterlife Connections Procedure. This approach provides individuals with the tools and guidance needed to establish a connection and engage in communication with their departed loved ones.

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