A Seek Reality Online member asked, “My husband recently passed away, but seems to be with me all the time. Is this wrong?” You are sensing your husband with you because our senses of the presence of someone from this life or from the next is a natural part of being human. A growing number of studies show that our thoughts and our emotions affect other people even when we’re not in the same room with them. So what does that mean for your sense of your husband’s presence, and is he holding himself back from progressing in the next life? In this video I explain what it means when we sense that a loved one in the life after this life is staying with us instead of going on in the next life.
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Your husband is with you because he’s concerned about your welfare and about your grieving. But that doesn’t mean he is holding back his progress in the next life. He has an eternity to grow in love and wisdom in the next life. Many people, especially children, stay with their loved ones in the days or months after their transition to the next life because their loved ones are grieving. They earnestly want those still on Earth to know they’re fine and that their love continues. They have an eternity to grow, so frequent visits to Earth during the few years a loved one is still here really don’t make any difference to their progress in the next life.
Most people who make the transition go on to the next life quickly or in a short time. However, they are constantly in touch with their loved ones still on Earth. Your husband can be “with” you without being constantly in the room with you. He receives your thoughts and feelings from wherever he is and responds. He may not be on the Earth plane during those times when he is receiving your thoughts and feelings. He feels them and responds from wherever he is. You receive his feelings of love and thoughts of concern for you.
People aren’t aware of the power and influence of thoughts and feelings. Many studies today have shown we receive others’ thoughts and feelings without direct communication. In one study, senders sent loving and caring thoughts or angry and disturbing thoughts to receivers in other rooms or other buildings. The receivers’ bodies were hooked up to sensitive devices much like lie detectors that showed their body reactions when they were receiving the thoughts and feelings. Their bodies responded positively when senders sent loving thoughts and responded with stress with they sent angry thoughts, but they weren’t consciously aware of what was being sent. We are constantly in touch with other people at a subliminal level. That affects the way we feel, and our subtle senses, although we aren’t aware of the source of the feelings.
In the same way, we receive the thoughts and feelings of people now living in the life after this life. So we can get the sense of a loved one either when they are thinking of us from wherever they are, or when they have entered the Earth plane and are with us unseen. Your husband will come into the Earth plane’s environment at times, such as when you’re grieving strongly or when your family is holding an event such as a birthday or holiday. But he also will feel, hear, and understand your state of mind from wherever he is. That is how he can be going on with the new experiences in his new life and still be with you. You are sensitive to him, so you receive his responses and feelings, just as the studies show people’s thoughts and feelings influence each other on Earth.
Your husband likely is engaged in his work on the other side. He thinks of you and sends messages to you, so that is the feeling you get. You can learn to allow the subliminal messages to bubble up into your conscious mind so you understand them. And you can learn to respond to his messages when he sends them. Go through our free, online training program at the link in the description below to learn how to receive the messages from your loved ones in the afterlife.
You can also ask your husband to come to you at any time. He will enter the Earth plane to be with you. You needn’t worry about interrupting his life. You will always be his first concern until you go on to join him.
The important message is that your husband may be with you physically in the same room, or may be with you mentally from wherever he is. That doesn’t hold him back. He will never be separate from you, and his love will never diminish. You will always be joined in thought and spirit until you make your transition and have a wonderful reunion. Until then, communicate with him. He’s waiting to have you respond when you feel his presence.
