Psychotherapists today are helping grieving people experience a reconnection with someone who has died, resulting in healing deep sadness associated with grief. The client sits in the psychotherapist’s office or meets with the psychotherapist online. The psychotherapist puts the client into an open state of mind and the afterlife communications happen while the client’s eyes are closed. The psychotherapist does not guide the communication. They don’t know about what happened until the client opens their eyes and tells the psychotherapist what happened. The result is that in one session, the client’s grief can reduce from a high of 10 on a 10-point scale of disturbance to as low as 0 to 3 in one session. Clients walk into the psychotherapist’s office or meet online in a grief state, sobbing. They leave the session feeling joyous, having had a connection with their loved one on their own that shows they their loved one is alive and well and they will live on after their body dies in the same way.
This video explains four methods psychotherapists are using today to help people have afterlife communication with the people for whom they are grieving now living in the afterlife.
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Dr. Allan Botkin, a psychotherapist at a Chicago VA hospital, was using a highly successful psychotherapy method called eye-movement desensitization and reprocessing, or EMDR, to help his combat veterans with their post-traumatic stress disorder and grief over soldiers they had killed. Dr. Botkin put his clients into a state of mind to desensitize the stress and grief. In that state of mind, they closed their eyes and sat quietly, reliving their experiences that were causing the stress and grief. The unique state of mind helped them to see the experiences differently, reducing their effect on the veterans. To his great surprise, the combat veterans began reporting that during the sessions while their eyes were closed, they were experiencing afterlife communications with the people for whom they were grieving. The experiences greatly reduced their stress and grief. Dr. Botkin refined the method and called it Induced After-Death Communications or IADC.
This is an actual example from the book I co-authored with Dr. Botkin. A narrator reads the text. A transcript follows the audio controls.
After the session Jim went to Darlene’s home. He told her he had had a communication with Simon but was disappointed that he didn’t have a message to give her from him, that he had only seen Simon’s hand on top of her hand. She began to cry, smiling and nodding her head. She said to Jim, “Last night I had a dream. It was so clear it didn’t seem like a dream. I felt, really felt, Simon holding my hand. Jim, he did give you a message from him to me. He was saying that it really was him holding my hand last night.”
You can learn more about Induced After-Death Communication, psychotherapists who are now using the procedure, and how you can become trained to use the IADC procedure if you are a state-licensed psychotherapist. The links are in the descriptions below.
Washington state psychotherapist Rochelle Wright learned the procedure Dr. Botkin was using and improved on it. She uses the same EMDR procedure, but adapted it to allow those in the afterlife to take over control of the sessions. The result was that her procedure reduces grief in a single session for 98% of clients by helping them have afterlife connections with the loved ones for whom they are grieving while in the psychotherapist’s office. It reduces grief from highs of 10 on a scale of disturbance to as low as 0 to 3 in a single session. Rochelle has trained over 100 psychotherapists to use the procedure, named Repair & Reattachment Grief Therapy. It is a remarkable breakthrough in the field of grief therapy that has a profound effect on clients.
I co-authored a book with Rochelle on her procedure. This is a narrated account from the book of a client’s actual experiences during a repair and reattachment grief therapy session.
Tina had a successful Guided Afterlife Connection with her husband, Joe, and came back for a second session to connect with her grandmother. This is Tina’s description during the Guided Afterlife Connection.
“Grandma began stroking my hair, and I burst out crying. Grandma said, ‘Don’t be sad. We will all be together again.’ She then gestured to show me that Joe was standing in the background. I went to him and we kissed and hugged. The three of us sat down together. Grandma said, ‘Be happy we are all together. It’s nice to sit together. It’s been a long time, and wonderful to have Joe sit with us, Mein Kind.’
“She said to me, ‘You are doing okay, but you must go forward. She then spoke in German, starting with ‘Mein liebling,’ meaning ‘My love.’ The translation of the rest was, ‘My life was mine. Joe had his. You have your life. We have to all move forward.’ She was showing me my people in the distance, saying ‘See. They are all doing something!’
“My Grandmother then said that her mother and father were there, and added, ‘We are all moving forward. We do everything together, like we did before. We have our jobs to do. There is always work to do.’
‘Mein Kind,’ she said, continuing in German. This is the translation: ‘You have to live every day to the fullest.’ I asked her, ‘What about the work I’m doing with Rochelle in afterlife connections?’ She said in German, ‘You can only go so far with the afterlife. Everything is not to be seen. It’s good to do this work, but you can’t go as far as you’d like. Otherwise, you would be in the afterlife. The work does help people, but when you go too far, you end up there.’
Joe was sitting close by. I acknowledged him for a minute.
Then my grandma said, ‘All is good. All is clear. It’s nice we could get together.’ Grandma and I were hugging. ‘You don’t have to be sorry for anything,’ she said in German. ‘Das war schoen,’ she said, meaning ‘This was nice!’ Then she said, ‘I love you and Joe loves you. We look out for each other.’ She ended with ‘Bis dann,’ meaning until later.
You can learn more about the Repair & Reattachment Grief Therapy procedure, the psychotherapists who have been trained to use it, and how you can receive training in how to administer it at the link in the description below.
The third way people are having afterlife communications with people living in the afterlife is through a Self-Guided Afterlife Connection, developed by the Afterlife Research and Education Institute. Anyone can learn to have their own afterlife communications with their loved ones in the afterlife. The method is 86% successful. You just have to learn how to open your mind to allow the communication to come through.
A woman had a Self-Guided Afterlife Communication session in which she communicated with her son who transitioned at age 12. She had the experience on her own with her eyes closed, sitting in the comfort of her home. This is her account of what she experienced.
William said he liked where he was. He missed and loved me. He asked if I could come there. He said there is every kind of ice cream there that you can imagine, even cherry chunks in vanilla which was his favorite. He said our dog Hershey cannot yet see him in spirit.
Then he took me down a road. It was like I was with him. I could see every pebble. He took me to an old covered wagon. There was a man sitting on the little wagon bench. He was older, had grey hair and a beard and was wearing one of those hats like they wear in the Australian outback. He was slim and had on a white shirt and brown pants with suspenders. He did not say anything to me or acknowledge me. The wagon I could see in such detail that I could see where the cloth of the covered part attached to the wagon part. I could see some loose threads. The wagon was being pulled by two enormous beautiful black Clydesdale horses. They were magnificent. I looked directly into their eyes and they looked back at me like they were an inch from my face. I could feel their breath and the softness of their nostrils. They had white fur on their legs down near their hooves. I could see the fur so clearly like little bits of dirt in the fur. It was so clear. I cannot describe how clear this was it was just so amazing.
I think at this point I had almost forgot I was sitting in a chair. I was so engrossed in my surroundings. William said he liked riding in the back of the wagon. Then at that point I could feel William was leaving. He said he would see me later and he loved me.
The fourth method psychotherapists are using today to help clients have afterlife communications with the people for whom they are grieving is called a Loving Hearts Connection.
Ohio state-licensed psychotherapist Jane Bissler has developed the procedure. In this procedure, people can experience online with a psychotherapist to successfully have an afterlife connection. The sessions are private, use free online video-conferencing, and last for approximately 90 minutes. After the psychotherapist performs the procedure, she teaches participants how to use it on their own to continue having connections.
The procedure is based on scientific research and known psychotherapeutic methods that provide a channel through which afterlife communication is directly experienced. The two other procedures used by psychotherapists are based on the same principles as Loving Heart Connections.
The first test on the protocol showed that 17 of 18 participants had successful personal connections that they testified were very real and heartfelt to them. You can link to the website for the Loving Hearts Connections procedure in the descriptions below.
Anyone can have an afterlife communication with loved ones now living in the afterlife. They are only a thought away. You just need to find a way of communicating that works for you. These three procedures used by psychotherapists are among the ways you can have a successful afterlife-communication experience that will be uplifting and healing.
